Our Founder

Charlton Alexander, Founder of The Governor’s Coach

Curtain rises. Spotlight on a man in pursuit of wholeness.

“Get me out of Egypt so I can worship You!”

These ten words—my desperate plea for gender, marriage, and sexual wholeness—set the stage for a divine drama I never could have scripted. The plot did not unfold with an instant revelation, a flawless marriage, or a sudden transformation. But oh, what a breathtaking journey it has been!

From a young age, I’ve been captivated by the power of words, music, and storytelling. Whether through crossword puzzles, composing melodies, or diving into the depths of scripture, my passion for expression burns like a fire in my soul. Born and raised in New York during the sixties and seventies, I grew up in a rich, multicultural environment that shaped my worldview. My education spanned from parochial schools to an HBCU, and those years are still a wellspring of joy and inspiration.

The story took a dramatic turn in 1985 when I married. For 13 years, I walked unstained by pornography—until one fateful moment, just in time for a mid-life crisis, when I stumbled across a website. The descent was swift, and in my despair, I cried out that desperate prayer. But our God, the Master Playwright, had already written a redemptive arc for me. Through His love and grace, I discovered the true script for manhood, marriage, and Kingdom-building (Genesis 2:24).

Now, as a Master of Science in Addiction Counseling, a Certified Sexual Addiction Specialist, and a Prepare-Enrich Marriage Facilitator, I stand on this stage as the Founder and Executive Director of The Governor’s Coach. My greatest spiritual gift—Artistic Communication—equips me to guide husbands in their God-given roles with wisdom, creativity, and conviction.

I am not just a coach. I am an acting coach for life’s most sacred role—the godly husband. Together, we will step into the spotlight of God’s purpose, transforming from men of self-ambition to men of “God’s Glory”-ambition.

The curtain is up. The scene is set. Are you ready to step into your role?